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I’m really proud of him for conveying such a tough message! Why are you hiding behind prayers, vague intentions, group hangouts, and TEXT MESSAGES? If you are clearly leading her on step up and ask her out, or stop leading her on.I was talking with a group of Christian men the other day and was given astonishing insight into the current dating scene. I’ve found myself wondering how do I encourage my brothers to GET OUT THERE and date. Group hangouts are great, but find time for one on one where your intentions are clear.and advocate of twelve-step programs for healing, says often people try to justify their own issues using the Bible: "If a person has a control issue, then his mode of operating will attract him to all those verses of Scripture that support his need to control, in this instance, ‘Wives be submissive.’ Other verses, such as ‘Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the Church and gave Himself up for her’ (Ephesians ) would not stand out for him," Vogt explains. That guy likely chose to justify his behavior by clinging to certain Bible verses. Are there Christians who have a naive, simple-minded view of the world and can’t seem to think for themselves? But there are also Christian Nobel Laureates and Supreme Court Justices.Are there overbearing misogynists who seem to believe that Jesus wanted them to control their wives? But there are also plenty of Christian men who have learned by their Christian faith that both men and women have an inherent dignity and that women present unique gifts to the world where men lack.Some Christians have lousy jobs and some quarterback Super Bowl teams.There are plenty of rotten human beings who call themselves Christians and plenty more who don’t. I don’t know if I’ve ever heard a woman come right out and make judgments about the attractiveness of guys serious about their Christian faith, but it’s certainly been implied.
Those are serious issues, of course, and I commend them for exiting those relationships. And likely their controlling and arrogant behavior would exist whether they were believers or not.
Every once and a while I’ll hear a woman say she'd never date a Christian.
In turn, I’ll say to them, “So if Tim Tebow or Russell Wilson walked up to you right now and asked you out on a date, you would reject them flat-out because of their Christian faith?
In other words, we’re talking about a wide range of human beings, and it would be silly to group them together into a box labeled “Undatable.”I’ve met several women who had a particularly damaging relationship with a Christian guy and have, therefore, sworn off all Christian guys.
But when they told me what exactly transpired, it turned out that for one woman, her boyfriend was manipulative and had used Christianity as a way to control her.